Why are we like this? First I (WE?) hated Murray, but now after seeing him upset like that, I like him?

Well, I didn't hate him. But I did feel for him when he lost. It must be extremely disappointing when you can't do it on the big day. Just shows how much he cared about it. As a Federer fan, I can empathize a bit on how he would have felt. He'll get over it though.